From a young age, Stephen showed tremendous strength of character. He was also fiercely protective of his family and friends. Such was this protection, when he received his diagnosis, he said that it was better it happened to him than one of his brothers or sister, as he was better able to handle it. And he did just that. 

What made Stephen so special was his booming passion, which at times would lead to the odd debate, however Stephen's opinion was one in which you’d have the utmost respect for. He was someone you could confide in and trust. He kept his positive outlook throughout every challenge that presented itself. Although he was very much aware time was running out, Stephen enjoyed each and every day and continued to do the things he loved and spend time with those closest to him, even travelling to Medjugorje and Gran Canaria with his family. 

It wasn’t until after his initial treatment was complete that he confided in his brother that he was afraid he was not going to make it. Even after his terminal diagnosis, he always said, “It will be ok, I’ll always be close to you, if I’m permitted to be”.

Stephen had a tremendous faith in God. The only time we ever saw a break in his armour was when he asked his oncologist if there were any clinical trials he could take part in but he was informed that there was none. To have no hope as a 19 year old was devastating for Stephen, his family and friends.

Stephen passed away in Newry Hospice on Monday the 26th of March 2012 surrounded by his family. Primary Bone cancer is very rare and survival rates have not improved much in the last 20 years. While Stephen was receiving treatment, he met 4 other teenage boys and they all died before him. As you can see, funds for research are very much needed.